With ollama you could offload a few layers to cpu if they don't fit in the VRAM. This will cost some performance ofcourse but it's much better than the alternative (everything on cpu)
I'm doing that with a 12GB card, ollama supports it out of the box.
For some reason, it only uses around 7GB of VRAM, probably due to how the layers are scheduled, maybe I could tweak something there, but didn't bother just for testing.
Obviously, perf depends on CPU, GPU and RAM, but on my machine (3060 + i5-13500) it's around 2 t/s.
